Kristin Cavallari Reveals ‘Soul Contract’ with Ex-Husband Jay Cutler

Kristin Cavallari Reveals ‘Soul Contract’ with Ex-Husband Jay Cutler

On 31 March 2026, Kristin Cavallari opened up about her past marriage to Jay Cutler. The 39-year-old spoke about feeling destined to be with her ex-husband.

Podcast comments and spiritual perspective

Speaking on her Let’s Be Honest podcast, Cavallari revealed a ‘soul contract’ with her ex-husband Jay Cutler. She said a deep spiritual pull kept drawing her back, despite logical doubts.

When a listener asked about giving the relationship another chance, she cautioned that endings often happen for a reason. Still, she admitted her spiritual view sometimes conflicts with her rational side.

How she described the bond

Cavallari said psychologists might label the feeling a toxic bond. Yet she maintains a spiritual explanation. She believes some relationships are meant to teach specific lessons.

Relationship timeline and family

Cavallari and Cutler were married for seven years before their split in 2020. Cutler is the former Chicago Bears quarterback.

  • Camden, 13
  • Jason, 11
  • Saylor, 10

She told listeners the pair once broke off their engagement, reunited, and later married. Cavallari said the arc felt like part of a larger journey.

Lessons from the marriage

She described believing the two had agreed on their path before birth. That choice, she said, included marriage and raising three children together.

Cavallari framed the divorce as a source of learning. She argued that sometimes souls choose relationships to gain understanding.

Filmogaz.com reported on Cavallari’s remarks and the spiritual lens she applied to her former marriage.