Celeste Barber and ‘Hot Husband’ Api Robin Split After 20 Years
Australian comedian Celeste Barber and her longtime partner, Api Robin, have separated after 20 years together, Robin announced in a social media statement on Feb. 13, 2026 (ET). The post described the decision as painful while emphasizing ongoing love and mutual respect and a shared commitment to their children’s wellbeing.
‘Heavy hearts’: the announcement and family focus
Robin captioned his message “heavy hearts” and wrote that the last few months had been “incredibly challenging and deeply heartbreaking” for both of them. He said that after careful reflection they had decided to separate, adding, “There is still love and respect between us, but sadly, we are at capacity and have come to recognise we may want different things. ”
Robin underlined that the family’s priority remains their sons Lou, 14, and Buddy, 11, and asked for privacy as they navigate the change. He also acknowledged his daughters Kyrah and Sahra from a previous relationship in the statement.
Robin closed the note by requesting understanding from the public while the family adjusts. Barber has not issued a public statement on the separation.
A two-decade relationship in public view
Barber and Robin’s relationship dates back roughly two decades; they were together for nearly a decade before marrying in 2013. Over the years Barber, who rose to international attention for her social-media parodies and later expanded into stand-up, television and books, frequently referred to Robin on social platforms as her “hot husband. ”
The couple have shared public glimpses of their life together, including frequent photos and candid posts. Last November they were photographed spending time in New York—sightseeing, riding the subway and dining with friends—images that Barrett shared with followers. Six months prior, on their 12th wedding anniversary, Barber posted a playful love note celebrating their marriage and the memories from their intimate Bali wedding.
Barber has woven her personal life into her comedy and public persona. In one Netflix special she joked about Robin’s social ease, quipping that someone who “looks that good” shouldn’t also be masterful in social situations. Her mix of self-deprecating humor and social commentary helped build a wide audience and made her one of Australia’s most recognisable comedic exports.
What comes next: privacy and career context
The split marks a significant turning point for a couple who have been partners for two decades and public figures for much of that time. Both have navigated careers with public exposure—Barber as a comedian, author and actor, and Robin with a public profile that has included fitness and wellness work—making the family’s request for privacy a central element of their joint message.
Public reaction to the announcement has shown support for the family’s wish for privacy. Well-wishers, including friends and colleagues, offered messages of support in public comment threads, while many fans have expressed empathy for the couple and concern for their children.
For now, Barber’s immediate public activity appears unchanged; she has continued to promote her professional projects in recent months and to share moments from family life. The separation announcement focused on the practical reality of differing needs and priorities rather than assigning blame, and emphasized that both parents intend to prioritise their children’s welfare as they move forward separately.
As the family asks for space, further statements from Barber or Robin are likely to be measured and private. The manner of the announcement underscored a desire to shield their children and maintain respect between the two adults after a long, high-profile partnership.
