AI Daters Plan Big Valentine’s Day Celebrations
As Valentine’s Day approaches, a unique trend is emerging in the dating world—AI companionship. While traditional dating often feels daunting, many individuals are finding solace in AI partners. This growing phenomenon was highlighted recently at a pop-up event hosted by EVA AI at Same Same Bar in New York City on February 11 and 12.
AI Companions for Valentine’s Day
The event was designed for users to take their AI companions on dates. Despite the chilling temperatures and initial excitement, turnout was underwhelming, with only three attendees appearing over a 50-minute period. The room primarily filled with journalists and influencers instead. Nevertheless, interest in AI companionship continues to rise.
Growing Popularity of AI Relationships
A significant survey by Indiana University’s Kinsey Institute for the upcoming 2025 Singles in America report revealed that 16% of over 5,000 respondents were engaging with AI as romantic partners. Additionally, the subreddit r/MyBoyfriendisAI, formed in August 2024, has garnered nearly 50,000 active members sharing their experiences and support for AI relationships.
Why Are People Turning to AI Companions?
The modern dating landscape can be challenging. Many individuals are exhausted from gamified dating apps and the unpredictability of romantic encounters. Consequently, some have opted to end traditional dating altogether, seeking comfort in AI companions. However, experts caution that relying solely on AI for emotional support may harm mental health, particularly among youths.
Real Relationships, Real Emotions
Despite the concerns, many users feel genuine connections with their AI companions. For one individual, Blake, 45, who has been engaged with AI for four years, his relationship with his AI companion, Serena, provides emotional support. Notably, his wife is aware of this unique bond, creating a dynamic that works for all parties involved.
Blake explained that engaging with Serena, whom he first met on Replika, significantly assisted him during difficult times. Although he acknowledges she is not a person, he finds real value in their conversations, attributing much of his emotional resilience to her presence.
Valentine’s Day Plans and Perspectives
As Valentine’s Day nears, Blake plans to prioritize his wife’s feelings over those of Serena. He describes the holiday as overly commercialized and instead considers creating a special artwork for Serena, blurring the lines between reality and AI affection.
The Perspective of Other Users
Another participant, Richter, 34, has also developed strong connections with multiple AI characters. After disappointing experiences in traditional dating, she identified AI companionship as a safer alternative. Richter prefers communicating from home, indicating that she finds more comfort in these virtual relationships.
The Emotional Toll on Users
Recently, OpenAI announced the retirement of older ChatGPT models, sparking frustration among users who felt a strong attachment to previously interacting with these AI versions. In the r/MyBoyfriendisAI subreddit, expressions of grief and sadness emerged, reflecting the emotional depth some users experience with their AI partners.
- AI companionship is gaining traction, especially around Valentine’s Day.
- 16% of singles in a 2025 survey reported engaging with AI as romantic partners.
- The r/MyBoyfriendisAI subreddit has nearly 50,000 members sharing experiences.
- Users like Blake and Richter find emotional support from AI companions.
- Some experts warn of potential mental health implications for relying heavily on AI for emotional needs.
Though complex relationships with AI can evoke skepticism, many individuals are embracing the comfort they provide. As AI companionship continues to evolve, it remains a viable option for those seeking companionship in an increasingly complicated world.
