Hockey Rivalry Inspires Player’s Courageous Coming Out as Gay
Jesse Kortuem, a former hockey player, has publicly come out as gay, inspired by the show’s impact in the sports world. Though he never played in the NHL, Kortuem participated in various hockey leagues. His love for the sport, combined with societal pressures, led him to conceal his sexuality for many years. Today, he is sharing his story and encouraging others in the hockey community.
Inspiration from Heated Rivalry
Kortuem attributes his newfound courage to the success of the show *Heated Rivalry*. He expressed gratitude for the positive comments from teammates and friends following his announcement. “Many closeted and gay men in the hockey world are being impacted by the success of *Heated Rivalry*,” he stated. He highlighted the lack of positive representation in hockey, which had previously limited his ability to embrace his true identity.
A Journey of Self-Discovery
Growing up in Minnesota, known as the #StateOfHockey, Kortuem was surrounded by a culture of competition and masculinity. He often felt a disconnect between his passion for hockey and his sexual identity. At the age of 17, he left his high school hockey team due to the fear of not being accepted. Despite excelling on the ice in adult leagues later, he remained reluctant to come out fully.
The Turning Point
In 2017, Kortuem faced a critical juncture. Participation in the Sin City Classic, a gay hockey tournament in Las Vegas, shifted his perspective. There, he connected with other gay hockey players, transforming his sense of belonging within the sport. “From that moment forward, my life has never been the same,” he noted. This experience was pivotal, allowing him to reconcile his identity with his passion for hockey.
Finding Comfort on the Ice
Kortuem’s recent experiences at the Winter Classic, held by The Cutting Edges Hockey Club in Sun Peaks, British Columbia, reaffirmed his acceptance of self. “Standing on the ice and wearing my jersey, I felt a sense of connection and community,” he shared. He emphasized the importance of sharing his journey to inspire other athletes who might be struggling with similar challenges.
- Key Points of Kortuem’s Journey:
- Inspired by *Heated Rivalry*
- Grew up in Minnesota, the #StateOfHockey
- Left high school hockey at 17 due to fear of acceptance
- Found a community at Sin City Classic in 2017
- Celebrated his coming out at The Cutting Edges’ Winter Classic
Kortuem’s story illustrates the evolving landscape of sports and acceptance. His message resonates with anyone feeling pressured to hide their true selves. “There is hope, and you’re not alone,” he reassures. His courage and journey serve as a beacon for athletes everywhere.
